Finding Grace and Charm in the Midst of Brokenness

2 Corinthians 12:9 (NLT) – “Each time he said, ‘My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.’ So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me.”

Last week, we explored how to reclaim your value after life’s setbacks and past failures. Today, we’ll go a step further and dive into a topic many of us know well: learning to accept God’s grace and seeing yourself through His loving eyes. This hits home for me because, like many of you, I’ve faced moments of brokenness where I’ve felt unworthy and unlovable.

Brokenness and Grace: A Personal Story

There have been times in my life when my past mistakes felt like a heavy burden, almost as if everyone around me could see them. I felt like I had to hide from the world and seek peace in my own space. It was in those moments that I struggled to accept God’s grace. I questioned whether I was lovable after everything I had been through. But this is where the beauty of grace shines brightest.

How do we find grace in the midst of our brokenness?

The answer is found in God’s unchanging love for us. 2 Corinthians 12:9 tells us that God’s grace is sufficient, and His power works best when we are weak. It’s in our brokenness that God’s grace covers us the most—transforming what seems unworthy into something of great value. He does not see us through the lens of our mistakes but through the perfect lens of Christ’s sacrifice.

Accepting God’s Grace: 3 Practical Steps

1. Acknowledge Your Weakness
   It may feel counterintuitive, but the first step to receiving grace is acknowledging that you need it. Just like Paul, who embraced his weaknesses so that Christ’s power could shine through, we need to allow ourselves to be vulnerable before God. Recognize the moments when you feel broken, and instead of hiding, bring them to Him in prayer.
2. Affirm Your Worth Daily
   Speaking God’s truth over your life is powerful. Make it a habit to declare daily affirmations rooted in scripture, reminding yourself of how God sees you. Here are a few affirmations you can incorporate into your day:
   • “I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” (Psalm 139:14)
   • “God’s grace is sufficient for me.” (2 Corinthians 12:9)
   • “I am a new creation in Christ.” (2 Corinthians 5:17)
3. Shift Your Focus from Shame to Grace
   When you focus on your failures, it’s easy to spiral into feelings of shame and unworthiness. But God calls us to fix our eyes on Him, not on our past. Shift your focus from shame to grace by meditating on scriptures that remind you of God’s love and mercy. Spend time in prayer asking God to help you see yourself through His eyes—a beloved daughter who is made whole through Christ.

Embracing the Charm of Brokenness

I’ve come to realize that there is a certain charm in brokenness when God is at work. The cracks and scars tell a story of healing and transformation. Instead of hiding them, we can embrace them as reminders of God’s grace. You are not defined by your past mistakes or failures. In fact, the grace you’ve received, and the lessons learned from those moments only add to your beauty.

Reflection:

• What are some areas of brokenness in your life where you need to accept God’s grace?
• How can you begin to shift your focus from your past to God’s mercy and love?

Affirmation Challenge:
This week, I challenge you to choose one of the affirmations listed above and speak it over yourself daily. Let it be a reminder that God’s grace is greater than any brokenness you may feel.

Let’s continue this journey together, finding the beauty, grace, and charm in every part of our story, no matter how broken we may feel. God is working through your weakness, and His grace is more than enough!

Let’s Chat!

1. Can you share a time when you’ve struggled to accept God’s grace in your life? How did you overcome it?
2. What are some of your favorite scripture-based affirmations that help you feel worthy and loved?
3. How do you remind yourself to focus on God’s grace rather than your past mistakes?

Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below. Let’s build a strong and safe community of support.